The Times, They are A-Changin’ (Bob Dillon, 1970)… or Are They?

By Katherine Forsythe, MSW (www.getasecondwind.com www.katherineforsythe.com ) Recently, I lost a good friend, Clyde Miller, MD (psychiatry), who spent much of his professional life campaigning for the sexual rights of older adults. He was 93 – and still seeing patients – when he died. His wife graciously gave me his professional scrap book of articles and notes about sex and aging, hoping that I and my colleagues might build on his work and...

On Going Gray

By Carolyn Cooperman Despite my feminist leanings, the decision to let my brown hair grow in gray took me about 30 years to make.  Most of the women in my age group still rinse, dye, or streak regularly.  You can even find women in nursing homes who still color their hair.  I eventually met the challenge, and here are some pleasant memories of the experience. My young grandson, in his wisdom, simplified the process.  “You still look the same except...

The Trash Truck Came Today

By Constance M. Bowes, PhD The trash truck came today and took away my old sofa.  I had tried to give it away, but had no takers. I then arranged to donate it, picturing a young couple getting a good find for their starter apartment.  The Salvation Army came with their truck and refused to take it because “there was a slight stain” on it; what a wonderful sofa—aging, but in excellent condition–a warm and cozy retreat for a young couple...

Chance Encounter on Sex and Aging

By Bill Taverner, MA Tonight I was working at a Starbucks café in Barnes and Noble. As I began to wrap up for the evening, I overheard two college-aged students at the next table. One said, “How do you spell genius?” The two began trying to figure it out, first with “j-i-n…” then eventually landing on “g-e-n-i-o-u-s”. Privately amused by the irony of the spelling attempts by two less-than-geniuses, I finally offered, “It’s actually...

My Mother Did What with Whom?

My mother did what with whom?  Understanding Human Sexuality in the Golden Years– Honoring the Whole Person throughout the lifetime. By Katherine A. Forsythe, MSW Welcome to the new sexual revolution. As champions of older adults, we can pat ourselves on the back for actively affirming the whole person throughout the lifespan. We talk about wellness and healthy lifestyle, and long-term care facilities knock themselves out to create a home-like...